Medicine for the struggling relationships and marriages

Listen ladies sometimes we are to much with our insecurities and all around baggage. Who cares if he is cheating or not. This is my question. What are you doing to keep the focus on you? Are you going through his pockets? Walking around with an attitude like you are entitled his attention? You are blessed to have a man to come home to you no matter what and take your low down attitude and your own crazy ways. Instead of trying to find out if he is cheating by following him and watching his every move, go home and fix yourself up, cook, clean and get ready to welcome your man to a happy home when he walks into the door. He is out there dealing with temptations, stress, insults, failures, low self-esteem at times and in all that he is trying to figure out how he is going to get ahead so that he can provide you all your demanding needs and inner-most desires. Give him a break he needs his castle to be a calm place to relax and enjoy the spoils of war.

Work on yourself. Stop trying to work on him. Show him that you support him and love him and that he is the most desirable man on the planet. Then he can open up to you, he will ask you what do you think about this or that! If he has to come home and deal with your legal questioning about the girl next door he just might focus on her a little bit more and you will slowly disappear. Keep yourself happy and stop whinning about if he is or not cheating...men will always fantasize! Sometimes they just might take a leap! If you really want him to stay make it about you and keep the focus on you! In doing this you will always be the apple of his eye! Men dislike an unconfident woman! They love attention! Pay him some attention and cheating will be a thing of the past and keeping up with your love life between you and your man will be a theme of the future.